Tolerance

A characteristic many appreciate is tolerance.
Because tolerance is necessarially for accepting other people and their views of life.
It does that you can have a totally different opinion, but still get accepted.

The most people are toleant enough to accept that others not always have the same oppinions, or look just like them self, but everyone's tolerance stops somewhere.
There is somethimg you just can't accept, and that itself isn't the bad thing, but it's the consequences following.
In the whole wide world, you can see the consequences in the form of war.
It can take the form of racism or bullying if you go more in detail.

You can for example see it in the schools, where a child gets bullied because he or she has a different look or acts a different way than the others.
Sometimes when it's because he or she acts different, it's maybe because he/she has a disiese like ADHD or maybe it's because he/she has a mind so well devoloped, that he/she is way more mature in view of life, but still don't know how to act together with peers, because they are in two different states of life, despite their similar age.

Very few can handle that, and almost only persons who knows a little about it, can react in a good way, and can have the capacity to accomondate it.

What's important?

What is important?
One question - a lot of answers.
It also depends on which context it's asked.
Right now I'm talking about what's important about people.
Still one question - maybe more answers..
Every person is different from another, and that's why there is so many answers to the question. Everyone has their own opinion.
It's also different if your'e talking about the one next door, a friend, a partner or yourself. I'm pretty sure that we all can agree that it's important to be able to trust your friend and the partner should love you back.
But when it comes to youself or a completly stranger you meet once and should try to jugde, it's another talk.
Specially when it comes to beauty, as I wrote in my last post..
Tall persons usally says it's the height that is important while less tall persons says it isn't that important. Clever people would say it's cleverness, physical strong people would say it's the physical ability and persons who find themself extraordinary beautiful, but maybe not so tall, clever, atletic or so on, would say it's they beauty that's most important.
And you can continue..

The most 'beautiful' persons may be the persons who look most healthy and is the one who seems to be the one who is most able to bring their genes on to the next generation.
The science has tried time on time to discover the formel behind beautiful, and they've said they have found it; and maybe they have, but is it that, that's the important?
Maybe it's up to each person to decide on their own?

Beauty

"Oh! (s)he's really beautiful!", maybe.. but what makes him/her beautiful?
Is it the facial features? The body shape? The color of the eyes or the hair? Is it...?
You could continue forever, but never get the correct answer.
I'm convinced that it's individually what the biggest factor is..
But still, I also believe that confidence is a great factor in that equation.
There is so many people I'm sure have a low confidence, and that's a shame!
I'm sure they would handle a lot things easier if they've got a higher confidence.
I don't think beaty comes only from the inside, people can be beaty or not on the outside to, and that does count.. At least in the first; but when 'the first' is over, the outside is less important, and it's specially here where it's the beauty inside that counts.
Maybe the quote: "it's the inside that counts" only comes from someone, who didn't want to be seemed as superficial, but it could, maybe more likely(?), come from one, who had thougt it through, and come to the conclusion that the outside dosn't count, but the personality..?