Even though

 The saddest thing is, that even though we know what's going on, we still don't do anything.
And even though we say, that it's horrible, we still don't try to change it.

I would look so stupid

You ofen hear people saying, "I don't know if I should do this, I would look stupid" or something like that.

It indicates that nowadays, people are afraid to do something, if they are unsure what everybody else would think of it. And if they are convinced that, what ever they do, would look silly, funny or stupid, then they are afraid of what other people would think, and they then choose not to do it. Just to be on the safer site.
And if they are supposed to do something they know they are not good at, they can tend to give up in advance, and then it's clear that whatever they end up doing, will go wrong and everybody will see that they haven't done anything to encourage it. And therefore it will look kind of silly, and noone will be impressed.
On the other hand, if they instead try to do it right, and take the assignment seriously, then people normally get pleasantly surprised and impressed. And you won't look silly at all.
As a bonus, you will feel much better afterwards, because you have done it, even when you were certain that you couldn't.

In reality people get impressed when you do something and try, no matter what your skills are, just the fact that your'e trying is impressing and admireable.
Otherwise, you will just look insecure and unserious, wich never look good.
Nowadays all to many people think to much about what other would say, and ends up not trying at all, when others actually would be impressed, just because you try.

Friends and loneliness

Friends and loneliness is the opposite of each other.

Thats at least what you tend think, but maybe it isn't always in that way..?
It's almost only the persons who has, or are trying it themself, who knows, that it isn't always how it is.

For someone, having friends doesn't always means that you aren't lonely.

Sometimes when everything seems fine, everything can be wrong.

Someone are in a situation where they only meet people, they actually don't get specially good along with. Maybe, on the outside, it seems like they're really getting along, and are very good friends, but sometimes the surface lies.

It can be, that they only are friends and a lot together, because of the fact that they don't know who else to be with. Or they only know someone who lives too far away etc.

And then they can feel lonely, even when they have a friend, or a lot of friends, if they doesn't get along that well as it seems.

To feel like having no really close friends, can really devastate you.

Sometimes you just wish that you had someone you felt like you could say anything to, and someone who would have you as "1st choice" nearly no matter what situation.

Feeling like that can make you feel empty inside. You can begin to close yourself and give up.

You can feel like you have no hope left.

And maybe the fact of people not knowing, not realizing what you are going through, that they're too ignorant to know, can be even more depressing and sad to you.

Many people isn't aware that someone can have it like that.

When everything seems fine on the outside, then what could be wrong?

Humans evolution

Humans must be the dominating species on the planet earth.
Don't you agree?
I mean.. There's humans everywhere on the planet, exept for a very few places, and there's over 6 billion of us.

It's very few other animals who has the same number of individuals as humans have.

It's only some insects and some other small animals, as we know, who is having the same amount individuals as we have.

In contrast to most, maybe all, of the other species on the planet, we can live in almost all of the continents. The only continent were we doesn't live is the antartic.

We use lots of space on the earth, to our houses and cities and we claer forests to get resources and so on.

We destroy a lot of the natural habitats the plantet original is based on, and what we lived in once a time.

Soon, will there maybe only be a very few species besides humans on the ground of the earth?

Sometimes we tend to forget where we came from, and how the environment was before we evolved to what we are today.

Darwins evoulutionary theory tells us that the strongest (the one that best can adjust and so on) survive, but whar about now?

Is it the meaning that we should be the only sppecie in the ground?

Mistakes

We all make mistakes from time to another. And when we do, we can really think that we'd really screwed up and everybody is going to remember it forever and everyone will tease you a long time because of it.

But if it was another who made the same mistake, would you think it was that bad then?

Most of the time you would say no..

Because when it's another who is doing the mistake it dosn't seem so bad, if you always should react strongly every time someone did a mistake, we wouldn't do anything else.

It's a human thing to do mistakes.

The only thing to stop making the same mistakes, is learning from the mistakes you already did.

That's why it feels so stupid when we're doing the mistake ourself, when you almost dosn't care when it's another who is doing the same.

It's the only way to learn from the mistake.
But of course, sometime you should relax and take it slow. Maybe people actually didn't cared..?

Predictable

In our lifetime we use a lot of time doing the same things, over and over.

We get up, go to work or school and go home and do almost the same as we did the day before.

If we never decide to do something else, we can use our whole life going in circles; never coming anywhere.

I would say it's a waste.

We could do many things in the time where we actually are doing nothing, but we don't.

We must change the circle one time from another, and actually do something new.

We must go beyond the boundaries somtimes.

Just to see whats on the other side.

Living life

Many times we're worried about future and consequenses.

We are being careful and reluctant.

We all know about it.
And of course you shouldn't forget about the consequenses or forget the future; but sometimes is it a good idea just to forget about them anyway and just live your life.

If we don't do that, we'll forget to live, and what's the life worth if we forget how to live?

Sometimes you just have to go wild and forget about the problemes and consequenses just for a second.

You can do it without override and forget about your responsabilities.

Everything ends, and so do life.

We only have one life, don't waste it!

What's important?

What is important?
One question - a lot of answers.
It also depends on which context it's asked.
Right now I'm talking about what's important about people.
Still one question - maybe more answers..
Every person is different from another, and that's why there is so many answers to the question. Everyone has their own opinion.
It's also different if your'e talking about the one next door, a friend, a partner or yourself. I'm pretty sure that we all can agree that it's important to be able to trust your friend and the partner should love you back.
But when it comes to youself or a completly stranger you meet once and should try to jugde, it's another talk.
Specially when it comes to beauty, as I wrote in my last post..
Tall persons usally says it's the height that is important while less tall persons says it isn't that important. Clever people would say it's cleverness, physical strong people would say it's the physical ability and persons who find themself extraordinary beautiful, but maybe not so tall, clever, atletic or so on, would say it's they beauty that's most important.
And you can continue..

The most 'beautiful' persons may be the persons who look most healthy and is the one who seems to be the one who is most able to bring their genes on to the next generation.
The science has tried time on time to discover the formel behind beautiful, and they've said they have found it; and maybe they have, but is it that, that's the important?
Maybe it's up to each person to decide on their own?

Money, money, money..

Money..
Most of the people asked, answers that money can't make you happy.
The question is, is that true? Hasn't money a little influence in how happy you are?
No matter what, humans allways want more money..
If you won a million, what will you do?
Maybe there's a lot who thinks that is a lot of money, but when they have it, the big amount isn't that much at all.
When we earn money, we also pay taxes. If we didn't, there would be a lot, who cound't make it in our economy based world.
I don't believe that we would be so generous and give so much money, as we do when we have the taxes.
As defense, a lot would say: "but I've earned it myself, I deserve them.", but do that change the fact, that it's greed?
I think it's okay to think like that, because everyone do it in some way. We can't avoid the fact.

We always wan't more.
My example is obviusly money, because it's the payment we use in our community.
We may start saying: "yeah yeah, I don't need that much, so of course I don't end with having more than I need.", but when we have the opportunities to get more than we originally said we'd need, we suddently need them anyway.

I would call it human nature, what about you?

Expression creates impression

We all know that expressions are important.

It's what creates the first imression of you, when you're meeting people.

Some people even say first impression is crucial.

You might be surprised to find out how many expressions you cam make with your face, and how little it takes to make your expession completly different than it was two seconds ago.

Expressions can also make you look older or younger than you are.

It can be difficult to say what's different about a person, when he or she changes expression, but you can clearly see it.

People

Have you ever noticed how much people are different?

We're all different, and have our own strengths and weakness.

Sometimes we think two people are just like each other, but when we take a closer look, we discovers that they are a lot different, and actually dosn't reminds that much of each other.

We all have a tendency to put people in boxes.

When we do that, we have it easier with relating to them. We can put them somewhere and say: "it's here you belong, and that's it!" And humans need to do that, otherwise we can't grasp it.

You can't describe a human with 10 words. It's impossible to do that.

We try anyway.