Friends and loneliness

Friends and loneliness is the opposite of each other.

Thats at least what you tend think, but maybe it isn't always in that way..?
It's almost only the persons who has, or are trying it themself, who knows, that it isn't always how it is.

For someone, having friends doesn't always means that you aren't lonely.

Sometimes when everything seems fine, everything can be wrong.

Someone are in a situation where they only meet people, they actually don't get specially good along with. Maybe, on the outside, it seems like they're really getting along, and are very good friends, but sometimes the surface lies.

It can be, that they only are friends and a lot together, because of the fact that they don't know who else to be with. Or they only know someone who lives too far away etc.

And then they can feel lonely, even when they have a friend, or a lot of friends, if they doesn't get along that well as it seems.

To feel like having no really close friends, can really devastate you.

Sometimes you just wish that you had someone you felt like you could say anything to, and someone who would have you as "1st choice" nearly no matter what situation.

Feeling like that can make you feel empty inside. You can begin to close yourself and give up.

You can feel like you have no hope left.

And maybe the fact of people not knowing, not realizing what you are going through, that they're too ignorant to know, can be even more depressing and sad to you.

Many people isn't aware that someone can have it like that.

When everything seems fine on the outside, then what could be wrong?

Humans evolution

Humans must be the dominating species on the planet earth.
Don't you agree?
I mean.. There's humans everywhere on the planet, exept for a very few places, and there's over 6 billion of us.

It's very few other animals who has the same number of individuals as humans have.

It's only some insects and some other small animals, as we know, who is having the same amount individuals as we have.

In contrast to most, maybe all, of the other species on the planet, we can live in almost all of the continents. The only continent were we doesn't live is the antartic.

We use lots of space on the earth, to our houses and cities and we claer forests to get resources and so on.

We destroy a lot of the natural habitats the plantet original is based on, and what we lived in once a time.

Soon, will there maybe only be a very few species besides humans on the ground of the earth?

Sometimes we tend to forget where we came from, and how the environment was before we evolved to what we are today.

Darwins evoulutionary theory tells us that the strongest (the one that best can adjust and so on) survive, but whar about now?

Is it the meaning that we should be the only sppecie in the ground?

If I were you

"If I were you, I would have done otherwise."
"No, if you were me, you would do the same, because I am me and you are you, and I think otherwise than you."

Conversations in the dark

This is a translation of the essay I wrote at my danish mock exams.

It's maybe a little funny written, but it's because I didn't want to change it that much, and then the grammar can sound fun.

Conversations in the dark

Soon will there no more exist places without artificial lights?
As our world become more and more infected by the electronics predominant force, dosn't the natural mysterius darkness disappears at the same time?

It's only in the darkness where your thoughts and your imagination can flourish in any direction.

Uninfluenced by luminescent screens and beeping sounds, the world seems completly different.

It's in the darkest forest, I walk right now.

I walk carefully. Feel my way with my hands and feet.

I feel exposed and defenseless.

I don't feel I have control over my own destiny and way. The only thing I can do, is to feel my way.

Here in the dark I become absorbed in my own toughts.
They fly back and forth.

They increase the sounds around me, and try to find a meaning.

Every broken branch will give me a jumo, and every beautiful birdsong will make me smile.

Here I'm a stranger, but at same time home.

Here I'm just a little piece of a big connection or am I?

I stop.

Maybe I should turn around?

Maybe I should turn?

Or should I continue straight on?

There is so many choices, and without use of the sight, then I must be able to make a decision without being influenced by everything else, am I right?

Or would I loose some of my jugdement as a consequence of missing visual impression?

When you're in the dark, wouldn't you end up talking to yourself at last? Maybe not out loud, but certainly wthin yourself.

And does it matter at all, if it one or another? Your only company is the darkness and your own impressions.

In the dark, can everyone have the permission to be themself, without having someone to pretend they're someone else at?

You don't have the need to a compromise with yourself or others?

Isn't the darkness relieving when you think about it?

We live in the artificial light, but can create our own world in the dark.

Here we can shape everything and create what we want.

It's our own rules that applies in the dark.

And the worlds we create seems real, but why can't we just stay in the dreamworld and forget the mess, that's called reality?

Do we need to return, when the dream is so much better?

Many times has I woken and have been confronted with the artificial light and a wish that the dream and darkness would remain.

With a wish that the drema come true, and the light would get wings and fly away, just as it can when you are in the dark.

The whole thing is so light and airy in the dark.

It must be possible to stick to it and live there, or is it to light and airy?

Of course you then get rid of your fears taking shapes of something, that's far worse than in the light, but isn't it why it's harder to confront it in the light?
The darkness must be the perfect.

In the dark, you can create a world on your own, you can make all your ideas come true and all of your problems goes on vacation or takes a shape and shows itself for you, so you can see them. Dosn't it sound perfect?

And it can't be false adversiting, right?

Is it really true that you need light to have dark?

Can't you just settle for one of them?

Ignorance

Ignorance is the way to learn.

It maybe sounds wierd, but when we think again it's logical.

If we'd knew everything, there wasn't any more to learn..

Wouldn't it just be boring?

There wasn't anything new, because we'd already knew everything.

We could predict everything, we wouldn't be surprised of everything..

Knowledge is power, curiosity and the way to discover more and learning. Omniscient is curse where you can't learn or discover, the only thing you can do is nothing.

I would hate a world where we'd knew everything. I don't know if we have a reason to live, but a reason could be discovering and creating; these words wouldn't exist if we already knew everything.

The more ignorant we are, the more we have to learn and discover, but it's harder to do if you don't know how.

We are all ignorant, but it doesn't mean we are stupid.

We are only stupid if we dosn't admit we are ignorant.

Left and right hemisphere

I've tried this today, my result was 16/16 on left/right dominance of the brain, which meens I should use my left and right hemisphere equally.
You can try it yourself by clicking at the link below my result.
It's a fun thing to think about, that someone is using their brain on a completly different way than yourself, don't you think?

Right Brain/ Left Brain Quiz The higher of these two numbers below indicates which side of your brain has dominance in your life. Realising your right brain/left brain tendancy will help you interact with and to understand others. Left Brain Dominance: (16) Right Brain Dominance: (16) Right Brain/ Left Brain Quiz

Mistakes

We all make mistakes from time to another. And when we do, we can really think that we'd really screwed up and everybody is going to remember it forever and everyone will tease you a long time because of it.

But if it was another who made the same mistake, would you think it was that bad then?

Most of the time you would say no..

Because when it's another who is doing the mistake it dosn't seem so bad, if you always should react strongly every time someone did a mistake, we wouldn't do anything else.

It's a human thing to do mistakes.

The only thing to stop making the same mistakes, is learning from the mistakes you already did.

That's why it feels so stupid when we're doing the mistake ourself, when you almost dosn't care when it's another who is doing the same.

It's the only way to learn from the mistake.
But of course, sometime you should relax and take it slow. Maybe people actually didn't cared..?

Predictable

In our lifetime we use a lot of time doing the same things, over and over.

We get up, go to work or school and go home and do almost the same as we did the day before.

If we never decide to do something else, we can use our whole life going in circles; never coming anywhere.

I would say it's a waste.

We could do many things in the time where we actually are doing nothing, but we don't.

We must change the circle one time from another, and actually do something new.

We must go beyond the boundaries somtimes.

Just to see whats on the other side.

Living life

Many times we're worried about future and consequenses.

We are being careful and reluctant.

We all know about it.
And of course you shouldn't forget about the consequenses or forget the future; but sometimes is it a good idea just to forget about them anyway and just live your life.

If we don't do that, we'll forget to live, and what's the life worth if we forget how to live?

Sometimes you just have to go wild and forget about the problemes and consequenses just for a second.

You can do it without override and forget about your responsabilities.

Everything ends, and so do life.

We only have one life, don't waste it!

Observing

When you take a look at the world right in front of you, just looking and observing, you can be surprised to discover some things you have never seen before, even if your'e walking by every day.


Maybe it's not the most important things, but it shows how we can walk by something every day, without even notice. "Good" or "bad" things.


It's the same with the problems in a society. There will always be problems in a society, and when we can't handle it all, the only thing we can do is to forget about then, and stop looking.

Sometimes we should stop up and take a look on the world.